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by LifeSong Milestones March 15, 2022 5 min read
Sympathy cards can feel impossible to write. Everyone grieves differently. Some things people find offensive, while others find comforting. Don’t let this fear of saying the wrong thing hold you back from writing a sympathy card.
Here are do’s and don’ts, a letter layout, and different phrases to help you convey a meaningful, heartfelt sympathy message.
Do’s
Don’ts
These sayings can be very hurtful. Grief is different for everyone, and their feelings need to be validated, no matter the speed of their recovery. You are not here to fix them or hurry along the grieving process. You are there to hold space for their emotions and ask if they need anything.
Here is a brief layout of a letter. It can be as short or as long as you’d like it to be.
Dear ___________,
Mention you are praying or thinking about the family.
Talk positively about the person who died, how he/she impacted your life if applicable.
Offer a way to help, if you mean it.
Close by saying how much the deceased will be missed.
Sign.
Example:
Dear Grace,
Words cannot express the depth of my sorrow over the loss of your mother. I’ll never forget her warm smile and gracious welcome when our families got together. I know that nothing anyone can say will take away the pain of your loss, but our prayers are with you and your family. If there is anything I can do to help, like run errands, or if you feel like talking, please don’t hesitate to call.
General
Mother
Father
Spouse
Child
Friend
Pets
Coworker
If you know the deceased was cremated, a cremation necklace, memorial urn, or candle holder urn may be a good gift. A customized ornament, memorial bracelet, or wall cross with the loved one’s name, birthday, and date of death might also be welcomed.
Again, anything will be more appreciated than nothing. Put your heart into it, and it will surely brighten their day.
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